
February 20th was my birthday... and a Full Lunar Eclipse! And a full moon, to boot... it may not have been a complete full moon, but it was, indeed, full... as was the eclipse. Wow! How special is that for a birthday present!
This is one of several photographs that Gary and I took last evening. We positioned ourselves on the dark and lonely dirt road next to the graveyard, across from the pond. Twice we had to move, because, wouldn't you know, here comes somebody, on a road like that, late at night, and at a time like that! After he left, here comes a game warden! Then we ran out of memory and had to run back to the house. There, we switched from the red truck to the green car, and made our way back in five minutes flat... only to have lost sight of the moon, thick clouds passing over. Gary thinks all the photos are crappy, but I think they're special. Afterall, it was my birthday :-)
In celebration of my birthday and the full moon eclipse, I dug up and scanned a few old photos, taken in the days of my innocence... and when a smile was quick and easy. Life is full of change for me, now... so full, in fact, that it seems to be standing still... I need some movement, for a Wind to Blow.












What a laugh. There's my Junior and Senior Proms, 1971 & 1972. Those are for you, Sing! What weird hair, in the lavender dress, almost looks like Little House On The Prairie... but I loved that dress, and I still have it, yes I do! The next year, I was looking much more confident. I guess, by then, I had become experienced? I did my own hair, back then, cutting it with a razor blade. Can ya tell? I've been thinking of doing it again, easy upkeep... washed and dried in five minutes! I really like the football picture, it was taken on the beach, with a couple of crazy girlfriends. We were actually at a Baptist Young Women's convention at Myrtle Beach. Those were the days! There's a couple of party pictures in there, and me cleaning the cabinets with Liquid Gold... and I'll let you figure out which are the party pics. There's a couple of honeymoon pictures... the one on the rocks, with brown leather coat, and the closeup in the brown leather... and what ensemble wouldn't be complete without blue canvas hightop sneakers??? One on the rooftop, wild haird... and one that my dad took of me all dressed up in brightly colored garb and a huge pair of sunglasses. I loved those sandals, I had them in purple and pink... and I loved that skirt, but that shirt was waaaay too bright! And those glasses waaaay too big, but they sure blocked the sun! I couldn't leave out my hippie pictures, my very first hip-hugger jeans, with big brass belt buckle. I really loved those pants, and when bell bottoms came in style my mother slit the sides and added red and white material, trying to make them into bell bottoms... and you can see I wore the tail-end out, and just patched that too! My niece told me I looked like a dog in that red halter top pic, I guess she didn't like hippies :( Hail Hippies! Then there's the really silly looking wind blown hairdo, standing on the beach in the orange shorts. Last but not least, there's a pic of me after I had just come in from running, wearing my youngest son's Mickey Mouse hat... And I saw that concert tour, that I was wearing on my shirt. It was fantastic! Go U2! Go Bono!
Most of those pics are taken before I had braces. I didn't get braces until I was 30 years old. But, the pics are from age 17 to 40 something...
I needed a boost, a reminder of the changes... and all that's yet to come. I needed to remember those days. Because I looked innocent... happy... hopeful... playful... serene... joyful... peaceful... adventuresome... and dopey and silly? I hope they will help you remember your own days gone by.
Peace & Love...

38 comments:
Shimmerings,
Oh, what a great scrapbook of memories, moments, life....And each photo I know, the cover to another chapter, another step. Your prom dress, just as you described, so seeing the picture here, I was smiling, remembering your words!
Isn't it funny, how changing tomorrow somehow always comes to rest on the shoulders of yesterday....."I wanna be free again" "I wanna laugh again...." It's the memories tucked safely away, that sometimes come flooding back to give us reason and strength. Beautiful post....
Peace~love
You got that right... "tomorrow always comes to rest on the shoulders of yesterday"...
You are beautiful and I enjoyed that immensely.
Oh, Dust Bunny, you are sneaking about... so glad you dropped by... and thanks, it was fun going through them... ahhh... memories!
Recently, I also find myself reflecting on the long,strange trip it's been.
Going through legacy photographs like this, I'm always struck by the fact that we become a different person with each passing moment.
We were lucky enough to have a crystal clear night during the eclipse. But no birthday!
Belated Happy.
Thank you for the b-day greetings, Mystic. You are so right, we do become a different person... and is easy to see, in these pics of mine. I've often had many people tell me, when looking at my photographs, that I look like an entirely different person in each one of them. And this was only a very small sampling... you should see the one of my "accidental afro"... it was a hoot! :0 I've often noted, that in times when I thought I was happy, the photographs somehow say otherwise... and, the reverse is true, too... when I thought life wasn't happening, the photographs proved that there was the joy to be found in my eyes. In any case, hope was still alive, when a vibrancy remained. Yes, what Trip, this Journey!
I hope to get back over to your place, to read all those thoughts... I've made a temporary move and am at the mercy of another's computer... and my time isn't the same. But, I'll check in.
Peace...
Happy Belated birthday Aquarius. What lovely pics...sometimes I go through my photo album and look at versions of me...and I can see such innocence and joy...not knowing what life had in store for me.
Perhaps some say you don't look like your pics...but I see you in every pic...a younger version. You still have that same smile. Hope this year is wonderful for you in every way. I wish you much happiness and joy and hope you geta job that fulfills you.
Wonder what happened to Mystic Wing..his blog seems to have disappeared??
Hi, Matty... first off, I just finished helping my mother set up a brand spanking new PC and I'm using her PC... and whoa!... all these pics look distorted on her PC... wonder what is up with that? But one thing is for sure, you don't need reading glasses...
Anyways, I'm glad you can see that it's me... I'm still in there, somewhere...
... I did have another interview that I felt went well, and a job that I am hoping for... didn't get the one with the Golden Harvest Food Bank... this time, I interviewed with a facility that helps to place foster children... really hoping on that one, thanks for the well wishes.
I don't know what happened to Mystic... he must've had a bad day, dang!? I had been over reading, but hadn't had the chance to really make comments on his last stuff. We just never know when we will go to a site and someone has hit the delete button. Or when some smart-ass has upset the boat. I hope he will come back.
Not an Aquarius... I'm a Pisces, thru and thru...
great photo collection
Thanks William... memory lane...
Hi! Intersting blog! Found it through a message left on mine!
Pop over and chat sometime!
Chris
Hi, Chris, thanks for popping by. I'll be sure to check out your place.
Happy belated birthday my friend!!
How beautiful you have always been...
Loved each photo... each a little glimpse into your story...
There's something beautiful about birthdays... reminds us of the roundness of things...
another year travelling round sun....
Bless you and all those you love, with lightness of spirit, invincible courage, and tender love
Sending you my love on the arms of the morning,
Maithri
Ah, Maithri... I always embrace your words with open arms, for there is beauty and love in each one. Thank you, my friend... I will let myself be filled with lightness of spirit, and invincible courage... especially these days, when I am doing job interviews, lol.
Love & Light, to you.
"I never dreamt that I would get to be
The creature that I always meant to be"
How did you manage to capture such a crisp photo of the moon? Did you use a tripod? Very atmospheric.
It's great to see all these snapshots of you, all the many facets glinting before they're gone, the shimmering gem, turning, turning, catching the light, broadcasting the light, the light that gleams and is gone, only to be replaced by something new and unique and interesting.
Happy birthday.
"cause we were never being boring
We had too much time to find for ourselves
And we were never being boring
We dressed up and fought, then thought: make amends
And we were never holding back or worried that
Time would come to an end"
- Pet shop Boys, Being Boring [1990]
Electric, I'm gonna have to check that song out... nice lyrics. And nice quote, in the beginning :)
You always post something beautiful and moving, thoughtful and tender... so reflective of your inner self. Thank you, always, for sharing that of yourself. It means more than you can know.
Yes, the camera was mounted on a tripod, and we lowered the F-stop, and it was digital. It was fun and frantic, trying to find the instruction booklet for the camera, at the last minute, and trying to get the snaps before time ran out.
Thanks for the b-day greetings... and love back to ya!
Lol....I loved all of these pics! Yes, even the full moon pic turned out wonderful! Happy Belated birthday to you girl! Time brings change, but our core remains the same and I can see in your core you are & have always been beautiful ... innocent... happy... hopeful... playful... serene... joyful... peaceful... adventuresome... and dopey and silly.
I love it & I know I am not alone in that!
Lol, you named them all... to include silly and dopey. Thank you for sensing my core (we all are, inherently, wonderful, at the core) ... it's been so far out of sight, I've been trying to find it, myself... I know I'll find it, eventually...
Peace...
Wow ~ there’s something way too familiar about this ..it resonates with crazy days and nights in newport beach ..colored skirts ..sandals ..halter tops ..and doobage. When I arrived in santa barbara in 1990 ..and cruised by the college ..I saw girls wearing sandals and paisley colored halter tops ..with hair like yours ..and ganja in the air ..I asked my co-workers if these styles have returned .. they told me they never left ..there was something comforting about that ..I wrote about it in a short blurb, if you’re interested, click here ~~> Isla Vista
And thank you so much for that trip back ..!
Hello Lee William... I'm glad I could take you along on the trip. Nobody likes to trip alone, lol. I'll bet you can figure out which ones are the party pics, too. You might even have recognized the antennae in one pic, or the black light in the background of another. I do know that, in my area, the hip hugger jeans and halter tops did go away for a while... but then, around the 90's there was a whole new wave of hippie types in my area. Yeah, nostalgia... warm and happy feelings. Must be nice to be surrounded by it all the time. Does it fill you with that same wonder and awe, freshness, and the whole world before you kinda thing? I'll be over to check your link. Thanks!
Thanks for following my lead there .. :)
Peace, ironically enough, seems to be something that we sometimes have to fight for. I guess it goes back to the whole War & Peace thing, but I was talking about on a personal level. Even so, it seems that the moments we have it skate, skim & glide away before we really even have a chance to realize it, much less, grab it by the ankles & pull it back to us... so we end up finding ourselves in the position of having to bow up for it. Best, imho, to have moments of it, even if fought for, than to never have it at all. Of course, I could be tragically wrong... but I beleive peace is here, in our hearts, and that it is possible...it's just not chronic like a smokers cough...
Chronic like a smoker's cough, lol. I believe it too, Skinny... and I feel the same way about love... better to have it in fleeting moments, than not at all. Peace...Love?
Shimmerings.
I notice that you haven't been blogging for awhile. Same here...but now I'm back..Just had to take a much-needed break.
Hope your job search is going well!
It's better to take your time and find something you really like...even if you are desperate. It's no fun just taking any job and being miserable. Good luck to you!
Hi Matty,
I've been going through some changes (in several areas) and I really needed to hear what you wrote, because I'm almost down to Wal-Mart and grocery stores. I am at least going through the motions of enrolling in classes for school, though I am not too sure that it will happen for me. In fact, pretty sure that my finances won't be able to swing it... but, one never knows when manna will fall from heaven, and one wants to be prepared. I'm glad you're back blogging, I was afraid it was bad news for your grandson that has been keeping you away. I'll run over and check things out. I sure miss Dusty Bunny, too.
JSYK....even though I haven't been bopping around, I've thought about you...
and hope everything's good in your world....
I can't believe it's been so long since I fell off the edge....
Wishing you peace, friend....
and love.....
Hi Sing, I think it's me who fell off the edge, lol. This is the longest I've gone without making a post, I believe... almost two months? Life is changing, things still in hibernation, things springing forth. I"ll post, most likely, within the next couple of weeks. Sometimes I take my time posting when I'm stuck with wanting to speak my truth and thinking it best not to speak my truth... ya know?
Glad to see you bopping about :)
Lol....I guess I follow in my sister's foorsteps...In fact was asking about your Sunday. But I caught a glimpse of you, shining your light my way & I appreciate it. Post as and at your will. You are free here ;) Thinking of you with p&l.
skinny
Ah, Skinny, it's true! Great minds think alike! I'm so glad you stopped by, it's so nice to know we are close enough that you don't forget me, even when I'm not running my yap... or flapping my keyboard fingers, lol. I'm almost ready to post... I do have something in draft, with a couple of photos, but the words are just not flowing from me, as before. Nothing creative *sigh*...
I thought that photo of the moon was well taken. My birthday is on the 17 :P
Your post brought back some memories to me. I was in the Astronomy Club during my high school day and sometimes I really had to fight with the clouds to get a good view of the night sky with the telescope; imagine setting the scope up and ready to browse but only to realize everything is behind the clouds :)
Hello BK, and thanks. I'm glad I could help bring back some of your own special memories. It was a lot of fun snapping them, and I fully understand the cloud thing. What was more aggrevating, however, were the two trucks that caused us to have to move the tri-pod, once we had located the moon. Grrrr....
found your blog through another blogger friend "dust bunny" - How lucky for me. I played your music while reading your blog and seeing your pictures - so great. Loved it. It made me teary eyed and made me smile at once. Thanks that was just lovely.
Great pictures!!
Simply me! Thanks for dropping by! I've seen your name, too, over at Dust Bunny's. I always want to call her Dusty Bunny, because my youngest son's name is Dusty :D In fact, I had to edit some of my posts, because I was, indeed, calling her Dusty Bunny. Hee! Hee!
I'm so glad you enjoyed my post and soooo glad you enjoyed the music. I don't think anyone has ever mentioned the music on my blog, before, so thanks for noticing and I'm happy that someone else can enjoy my music, too. And I hope they were happy tears :-)
I hope you'll drop by again.
Hahaha...it's me again!
Last night I was listening to the beloved & awesome Stevie Ray Vaughn & thought of you!
Hope all is well...I left a little token of appreciation on this virtual path of the www for you.
P&L little wing!
Hi Skinny, I was thinking about you last night, too... because I was over reading your last bit and plan to go back over and comment, today... nice story of a latch key kid... er, is that of a "walker" :-) I like Stevie Ray, my husband loved him even more. You must've read something that I may have mentioned once, of how he was commuting home from work when he heard the news of Stevie Ray's death... and he pulled over on the side of the road, with his ever handy guitar, in tow, and plunked out a few tunes in honor of Stevie Ray... attracting a few other Stevie Ray fans who closed in to listen. Thanks for thinking of me... now, I'll hop on over to your place.
i came here from cruel virgins blog. i went through ur posts and this one caught my attention. u know what - i m one day younger than u are 21st feb.
You were pretty then and u r pretty now.
Take care.
Sandy
Hi, Sandy... you are so kind, I'm glad you found something you could relate to. Last night I was on the tour boat that I guide, and there were numerous young ladies, all in their early twenties, dancing and swirling, whilest partaking of the drink. I was smiling inside, remembering. Nobody wants to see a gray haired woman strutting her stuff. For some reason, people think we aren't entitled to that same fun... but, they were a pleasure to watch, in their innocence and beauty.
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